Saturday, October 25, 2008
annoyed
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Beyond the Blues
Praying should always be the first step in terms of everything. God is on our side and cares deeply on those who are hurting. He's Listening and ready to give us wisdom to respond in our situation. I personally encouraging everyone to pray alone about the break-up and what's going to be in the future. This is the time to release all your aches wrapping your heart.
Secondly listening to someone who also suffered and survived in this kind of undertakings is an effective way. The approachable we are, the wider the door will be open for future conversation. It's really good to feel that there's someone speaking to you words of encouragement like our parents and friends. At the same time this is also the moment to voice out our hurt feeling, and it's really relaxing that there's someone also listening to you. In addition to this be realistic in our feelings.
Balancing our thoughts,attitudes and words toward the other person leads us to little by little forgiveness. Make sure though they hurt us, don't utter not so good words to them instead remain caring for them.(Who knows you might even still together down the road!). But really the thing is, friendship is still there even though it takes times to build it
again. Balance our attitude by not acting like a fool, just go on with the flow. Always be reminded that life must go on.
Lastly is loving again. It doesn't mean to fall again to other person that quick. There are lots of person and things to be loved. Though we've searched love at the wrong place the last time, time never stop counting and there are lots of time especially the perfect time coming. Just love the persons and career you have right now.
Fixing a break-up really don't happen overnight. It's like a wound that could be heal in time through the use of medicine. Use whatever opportunities we have to simply talk about life. Make sure our self-esteem stays in tact. Always tell ourselves that we have great qualities and we are special in ways that go far beyond a broken relationship.
Friday, July 18, 2008
Friday, July 11, 2008
Wrong Number
Friday, July 4, 2008
Switching Worlds
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending"
I’m a college student pursuing a degree in Information Technology. At first this isn’t the course I really want. In fact, I’m so interested in Tourism, like what I said in my profile I’m an adventurous person and I loved seeing beautiful places. But apparently my parents can’t support financially so I decided to change my mind and grab this course. I’m not saying that I’m bitter because I have accepted the reality. And that’s the great lesson I learned. “Healing starts in accepting” and “life must go on and on and on”
My life is now different from where I got from. Switching the world of high school to college where professionals are produced is a big transition. Yes, I find a hard time now that I’m a college student. First in the list is the schedule. New set of classmates, new set of friends. Age gap between me and our classmates is one where I find time hard. Their interests are very far from what I wanted such as they like more “gimmicks” which is very aloof from my personality. But I think that’s a factor to test me if I can go find time to be close with them. Next thing, in high school, when the tic tac of the clock is in 5pm I’m already in our home but now that's the time when our classes will start. Big difference, right? Switching modes like this can teach me how to be more flexible and how can I handle my time responsibly or maturely. Lastly it's totally different when it comes to the subjects we're tackling. You must be always prepared every time you go into your class and if you miss the class for that day, you also missed lots of lessons and it's hard to cope up. Compared to high school even you were absent for a couple of days still it's easy for you to deal with the lessons. Meaning to say now I understand why many college students though they're sick they still go to class.
Saturday, June 28, 2008
I am a flower quickly fading,
Here today and gone tomorrow.
A wave tossed in the ocean,
A vapor in the wind.
Friday, June 27, 2008
Reminiscence:"Looking Back"
I end up my Nursery and Kindergarten at